Best friends dating your ex
Now you’re sad and lonely and totally not over him at all. You finally come to the conclusion that you’ll never move on or trust anyone again. You talk to your best friend about it all the time. You’re so upset you don’t even want to leave your bedroom. (But don’t worry, you will.) Has one of your friends ever dated your ex? But with a simple sentence that felt like a slap in the face later, I realized that look and that tone were ones of sympathy and shared heartache for me and anger towards the girl I called my best friend.While I was getting closer to coming home, she kept telling me that a lot of things around campus had changed.Well that about sums up the current relationship I have with my best and very first friend upon my arrival at college.
“If you decide to pursue the ex, you should be prepared to lose the friendship.
You’re like: You ask her about it and she’s like, “Oh, yeah, we have this in common, blah blah blah,” and you try to be cool about it but inside you’re like… You start to freak out, wondering what is going on.
She promises you she would never betray you like that and swears nothing shady is happening.
“Most people are highly uncomfortable with these situations, so it’s best to look for love somewhere else,” she adds.
When I used to think of best friends, I would think of someone who knew your order at Mc Donald's without having to ask and got you fries even when you said you didn't want anything because you share the idea that food is life.
Martenson advises “letting things dissipate a bit” before making your move.